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Making the move to a senior living community will mean a lot of great changes in your life: new experiences, more friends, and more. Though you’re already excited about this move, it may come as a surprise to your family.
They might be worried about what these changes could mean. They’re probably wondering if you’re moving to the right place, if you’re spending your money wisely, and what will happen to your house.
Your family’s concerns come from a place of love, so it’s important to respect their feelings. When you have a conversation with your family about your decision, reassure them that you’re making the right choice for the life you want to live.
That’s why we’ve created a guide to help you with these questions. It gives you an idea of why your family might be concerned, and how you can address these questions honestly based on your own reasoning and plans.
The guide will explain the kind of community you’re considering, including some of the features and benefits of living there, and it will also help you work through the logistics of making the move and leaving your house behind.
We hope this conversation is enlightening as you explore your family’s care and concern for you, and your desire to make a change.
Family Talk: Common Questions and Honest Answers
Why this particular community?
Your family wants to make sure you choose a place where you will be comfortable. They can rest assured that at Portera, you’ll be surrounded by vibrant, active people. Your apartment home will have everything you need with open floor plans and modern kitchens, and you’ll have access to great amenities and fun activities.
Why are you moving?
This is a big change, so your family will want to know if this will be a good move for you. What they might not realize is that this change means freedom from never-ending household upkeep, like maintenance and lawn care. It’s your chance to start a new adventure, meet new friends, and spend your time doing the things you love.
What will happen to your belongings?
Your family might express concern about furniture, keepsakes, and other possessions. These items can be emotionally meaningful for your family, and they probably want to make sure you aren’t tossing their favorite memories. Now may be the time to pass along cherished items to your loved ones. Think about the lifestyle you want, and whether all of your current belongings fit with your future.
What happens to the house?
A home is often a primary source of financial stability, and if your children grew up in this house, they might be sad to see it go. Explain to your family that the way you want to spend the best years of your life—full of travel and new experiences— doesn’t fit with living in a traditional house anymore. Keep the conversation going—invite your family to visit Portera so they can see it for themselves.
What about your pets?
Of course your family wants your best friends to come with you. Portera is designed with your happiness in mind, so dogs and cats are welcome!
Explore Portera
Portera at the Grove offers not only a beautiful living space, but also an entirely new way of life. We invite you to visit us and tour our community with your family.